The Other Side of the Glass

The Other Side of the Glass - Buy the film

I am grateful for and overwhelmed (in a good way) with the response to the trailer and the requests to purchase the film.

The intro is short so that fathers and professional caregivers can get the overview of the information now. Fathers/Partners will be inspired about how to advocate for the mother and baby -- whether with a doctor or midwife, or at home or the hospital.

Thanks again for your support for the film. My heart soars with gratitude.


Janel Mirendah

Saturday, May 20, 2006

Your Birth

Your birth is a critically important event in your life. Your birth was THE event that adds the finishing touches to you brain, and to your relationship with your mother. If one is a "bun in the oven" during gestation, then labor and birth are the "icing on the cake." The experience creates hormonally and perceptionally, your view of the world. The process of leaving your mother's womb is a template for your relationship with her and with the world for the rest of your life.

When you claim your own birth as YOURS, as your own entry into this world, you can then and only then, begin the process to embrace who you really are. Our gifts are found in healing our traumatic experiences. As you embrace your traumas as part of your journey and as developing your survival skills, you find you have to give up victimhood. You can now be grateful that there are technologies to sort it all out.

Embracing who you are from the prenatal and birth perspective - when YOUR brain and body was built - and experiencing re-imprinting of your early experiences - will change the way you treat yourself and others. And, very much so, you will change the way you treat babies.

Become a Baby Keeper.

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Review of the film

Most of us were born surrounded by people who had no clue about how aware and feeling we were. This trailer triggers a lot of emotions for people if they have not considered the baby's needs and were not considered as a baby. Most of us born in the US were not. The final film will include detailed and profound information about the science-based, cutting-edge therapies for healing birth trauma.

The full film will have the interviews of a wider spectrum of professionals and fathers, and will include a third birth, at home, where the caregivers do a necessary intervention, suctioning, while being conscious of the baby.

The final version will feature OBs, RNs, CNMs, LM, CPM, Doulas, childbirth educators, pre and perinatal psychologists and trauma healing therapists, physiologists, neurologists, speech therapists and lots and lots of fathers -- will hopefully be done in early 2009.

The final version will include the science needed to advocated for delayed cord clamping, and the science that shows when a baby needs to be suctioned and addresses other interventions. Experts in conscious parenting will teach how to be present with a sentient newborn in a conscious, gentle way -- especially when administering life-saving techniques.

The goal is to keep the baby in the mother's arms so that the baby gets all of his or her placental blood and to avoid unnecessary, violating, and abusive touch and interactions. When we do that, whether at home or hospital, with doctor or midwife, the birth is safe for the father. The "trick" for birthing men and women is how to make it happen in the hospital.