The Other Side of the Glass

The Other Side of the Glass - Buy the film

I am grateful for and overwhelmed (in a good way) with the response to the trailer and the requests to purchase the film.

The intro is short so that fathers and professional caregivers can get the overview of the information now. Fathers/Partners will be inspired about how to advocate for the mother and baby -- whether with a doctor or midwife, or at home or the hospital.

Thanks again for your support for the film. My heart soars with gratitude.


Janel Mirendah

Saturday, May 20, 2006

We Are Each the Union of the Mother and Father

We each physically began as the union of our father's sperm and our mother's egg coming from some other place -- heaven? Isn't that where babies come from and where we go at the end of life? The continuum of birth must then be the profoundly defining moment in our physical life. Our parent's relationship throughout gestation is the fertile soil upon which our brain, body, perceptions of the world are created. Our emotional, psychological, spiritual, and of course, physiological being is established in the womb. That is clearly scientific.

Whatever happened, how our mother perceived it, her feelings, what she ate and ingested, her environment will be ours to live with throughout life. Clearly, there is no way around it, our society ought to focus on the pre-conception through infancy period of time in order to solve the myriad of health and social problems. If we did so, we would have to address the issue of what is truly the safest for the laboring and birthing human baby. We would have to change the way we fund resources in the services we provide for children and familes, and we'd have to change the way we treat women and babies in birth.

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Review of the film

Most of us were born surrounded by people who had no clue about how aware and feeling we were. This trailer triggers a lot of emotions for people if they have not considered the baby's needs and were not considered as a baby. Most of us born in the US were not. The final film will include detailed and profound information about the science-based, cutting-edge therapies for healing birth trauma.

The full film will have the interviews of a wider spectrum of professionals and fathers, and will include a third birth, at home, where the caregivers do a necessary intervention, suctioning, while being conscious of the baby.

The final version will feature OBs, RNs, CNMs, LM, CPM, Doulas, childbirth educators, pre and perinatal psychologists and trauma healing therapists, physiologists, neurologists, speech therapists and lots and lots of fathers -- will hopefully be done in early 2009.

The final version will include the science needed to advocated for delayed cord clamping, and the science that shows when a baby needs to be suctioned and addresses other interventions. Experts in conscious parenting will teach how to be present with a sentient newborn in a conscious, gentle way -- especially when administering life-saving techniques.

The goal is to keep the baby in the mother's arms so that the baby gets all of his or her placental blood and to avoid unnecessary, violating, and abusive touch and interactions. When we do that, whether at home or hospital, with doctor or midwife, the birth is safe for the father. The "trick" for birthing men and women is how to make it happen in the hospital.